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Planning for (Pet) Parenthood
Pamela Fitzpatrick

sayville.com - January 31, 2008

      
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So you’ve decided to get a pet? Congratulations! The right pet can add lots of joy and happiness to your life. Numerous studies indicate that owning a pet can improve our psychological and physical well being (with comparable benefits for the pet as well). The right pet/owner match is a win-win situation. But, as most things, preparation and planning is key. Before you take that first step, stop and think- exactly what kind of pet is right for you? That adorable puppy or kitten may be pleading with their eyes- “Take me home, now, please” but before you do, consider the following:

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What are you really looking for?
Dogs, cats, and birds can form a meaningful pet-owner bond, while other types of pets can be considered “spectator” (i.e. aquarium fish). Ask yourself some questions, and do some research on the internet. Gather information- the more you know, the better!
 

How much time can you realistically devote to caring for a pet?
More than feeding, this can involve grooming, training, and spending quality time with the animal. Quality time can mean playing, going for walks, or just hanging out on the couch- the keyword here is TIME. Do you work long hours or travel a lot? Dogs in particular need lots of attention, and most don’t do well if left alone for long stretches of time.

Are you willing to make a lifelong commitment?
This is really important. Dogs and cats can live 10-15 years or more. It’s heartbreaking to see older animals put up for adoption or worse, turned over to a shelter, because the owner’s situation changed and they could no longer care for their pet. It can be very difficult to find a loving home for an older animal……sometimes impossible. The pet you bring home depends on you for their very life, for the rest of their life!

Do you have the financial resources to properly care for the pet?
Pet needs involve much more than just food and shelter. Dogs and cats, and many other types of pets require routine grooming and veterinary care to keep them healthy throughout their lives. Just like people, they have accidents and get sick. As an owner, you’re responsible for giving the animal the care it needs.

Those in Favor…
Are all involved parties in agreement about this? It’s never a good idea to get a pet as a surprise gift for someone else- don’t do it! Along the same lines, don’t bring a pet home on an impulse. Stop, take a breath and give yourself distance and time to reflect- is this the right thing to do? Is it in everyone’s best interests (including the animals)?

What about the future?
Where do you expect to be 5 years down the road……….. 10? Is marriage and children still on the horizon? Or do you have kids who will be off to college before you know it leaving a senior dog or cat behind? Owning a pet is for life, even when your life changes.

I’ve owned dogs and cats my whole life- my life is so much richer as a result and I can’t imagine being without them. From volunteering with animal rescue groups, I’ve seen firsthand how getting the right pet at the right time can make all the difference between delight and disaster. Pets have so much to give us, its only right that we give back in return, and responsible pet ownership is the cornerstone of that relationship.

 

About the Author
Pamela Fitzpatrick lives in Sayville with her family (which of course includes pets).  She has a Masters degree in Animal Behavior, and is the Event Coordinator for Have-a-Heart-Adopt-a Pet, a local organization which promotes animal adoptions.  Pam is also the owner of Sayville's Hydrangea Cottage and YourDogWalkers, providing petsittting and dog walking services to Sayville and surrounding towns.  Suggestions and ideas for column topics are welcome, email shihtzu58@optonline.net
 
   
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